Control is an illusion, and our need for control stems from the fear-driven ego. We often try to control people, relationships, circumstances, and what others say and do in an attempt to alleviate our own fear and anxiety. When we "win" control we feel safe and secure, and with this temporary "success" we are relieved. This feeling of relief serves as a strong reinforcer that leads us to striving for more external control. It is a vicious ego-driven cycle which leaves us emotionally unsatisfied and craving the next control-fix. Letting go of control is key to inner peace and personal freedom.
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