Weatherproofing refers to looking for cracks, chips, or faulty parts of a house that we then plan to fix. This is also something we can do with other people and ourselves. Often we think that fault-finding is about the other person's annoying or challenging behavior, when in reality it says nothing about them and everything about us. We get roped into this habit and begin to see life as not being all it's cracked up to be and that nothing will ever be enough. When we shift this habit over to looking at these challenging people as "Personal Emotional Trainers" it can change our entire attitude, our relationships, and our lives.