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hey everyone,
welcome to the show where i babble about stuff that nobody cares about.
nevertheless I know at least 2 people i know will give actual effort about hearing this,
not cause they like my work,
but because they genuinely care for me and i am thankful for that.
Today i want to address over the habit of complaining and broadly the habit of making excuses.
I don't really think that both of them are any different if anything they have a causal relationship with each other.
we all have problems,
Broadly divided in 2 categories,
one's that you solve and other's that you don't.
there's only 1 actual factor that decides the result,it's your motivation to solve it.
Just to make it clear your will to do something and your motivation to do something are 2 very different things.
your will to do something is about how much do you wish to do something,your motivation is how hard you want that to happen.
when we talk about someone's will only thing that matters is his mindset,
a motivation is a causal phenomenon that has various deep reasons.
from a time limit to a life or death situation.
anyway i advice you to be motivated rather than trust your will power.
put yourself in such situation so that the only option remaining will be make that thing happen.
Because from my experience procrastination will always overpower your willpower whereas whereas your fear of consequences will always keep you motivated to make things happen.
Sometimes to solve a problem you will have to put yourself in a problematic situation.
And it has it's benefits too.
you will understand the problem better, in many cases you will start hating the problem so much that you'll have to solve it.
Hate and fear two strong human weapons that are highly underrated.
i know i sound like a terrorist but this is a fact.
Complaining about something is similar to making excuses.
when you complain about something your focus will move from solving something to how the problem is.
I won't stretch this any further i don't want to want to bore you.
but i'd encourage to think about this.
Hope you are drinking enough water.
Bye.
