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1.Debunk The Myths
Let's go ahead and debunk these myths now and forever. Contrary to popular beliefs black fathers whether young, old, gay or straight love their kids. No matter if they like to have a pants hanging down or their pants up like Steve urkel. Black fathers love their kids. So with that being stated I want people to understand that black men aren't just out here having kids and not taking care of their responsibilities. Now of course you are going to have a few bad apples and a bunch that skeets in everything and walks away never to be seen again. Some of that is the black man fault and some of that is the women's fault for allowing what you know to be a no good nigga cum all in your walls. Now that we have the graphic part of this conversation over with let's start really talking about why black do love their kids.
2. I Have Seen Men Cry and Wail Over Their kids
How do I know this well I was one of the ones crying and wailing over my child.A Few years back me and my child's mother with my child in the middle of it all got into a huge verbal altercation. It was the Pinnacle of what has defined our relationship today. But to not making a long story essentially it was a reference to custody and visitation of my child. My daughter was 2 years old roughly 2 years old at a time. And as she's approaching the eve of her 6 years a life on November 7th. I have realized I have grown a newfound love for my daughter as she shows me and her unconditional love that couldn't quite be explained when she was 2 years old. Now that she's able to make out a full sentences and speak so intelligently. I know without a shadow of a doubt within my mind that I love my daughter and I'm grateful to God that she's in my life.
3. Women Stop Using Kids As a Tool To Spite the Father That Left You. He Left you not his child.
Sadly we see the replay button on this over and over again where as women weaponized their kids against the father in order to push the father out of the life of his child. And believe me because of women has a lot more rights than a man especially if you guys were not married. That woman has a lot of weapons to be able to use to draw ain't against the father and push him away not only from her essentially but sadly I'll wait from his child. So sadly as the argument goes when individuals say that nigga ain't shit and go on Instagram live talking about their baby daddy this and that little the people know that there's always two sides to the story. Why? Because I genuinely believe that black men do love their kids and they love their kids to help financially emotionally and spiritually as long as there is a healthy connection between the father and the baby mama. Praise God that the mother of my child and I are not where we 3 years ago but we can do better in the communication department today. She's a great mother and allows me to freely have opportunity to see my daughter and be and my daughter's life so show her unconditional love that she can only get when she has a balance of both mother and father in her life. Happy birthday Mila Destiny Beckford.
Black fathers come in all shapes and sizes we love our kids just as much as the next man. Just because we may be outside of the household it doesn't mean that we are not in our children's lives.
