Human life offer limited amount of opportunities to make meaningful change, choices we make define us and shape our reality and we can never escape the reality of what we have become in comparison to what could have been, go to a old age shelter and asked them what they regret now that all of it is over, now that the big house is sold and cars are gone and public awards have been placed on a shelf gathering dust, now that the children have left and become adults what has it all been for, they will answer that as they prepare for transition they begin to understand and appreciate the simple things that money could never buy and they can no longer supply. The act of kindness and the gift of presence.