Each person has been created miraculously, in so many ways. It is important to quietly recognize and appreciate this so that you may grow with satisfaction and joy. Don’t let mistakes define you. Don’t let criticism, falling short of goals, past traumas, lack of money or status, or any other externals define you. Each person is too precious and complex to be so narrowly defined. In our journey together we have explored a variety of self-esteem-building skills. As with any other skills, self-esteem skills take time to acquire and practice to maintain. Perhaps you will incorporate some of these skills into your life without much conscious thought. Perhaps other skills will require that you deliberately set aside time to practice.
1. Growing is an ongoing process that is never fully completed. 2. The growth process is a way of loving. It is satisfying because it starts from the secure inner base of worth and love. 3. At an emotional level, the process says, “I’m glad inside and unafraid to be growing—becoming even better.” 4. Ascent is difficult. Expect hard work. 5. Growing is not competitive or comparative. You can select your course and pace. As with weight plans and exercise, it is wise to pick a pace that you can maintain throughout life.
