As a relationship counselor, I am often asked "why did my partner Cheat"? Often an affair is a symptom. A spouse cheats because there is vulnerability, either in your partner or in your relationship. Problems can occur if your relationship has become dry, if you are not interacting with each other, if the sex life is nil or there's been some changes were a lot of their attention is going outside of the relationship.your partner may be hungry, and seeking to fill the hunger through other means. Whether it be through cybersex, through a motional intimacy with coworkers are through having an affair. To get to the heart of the reason for the infidelity, consider cheating to be the symptom and not the illness.
