Last week's podcast special opened up a lot of interesting discussions about foreigners in the Philippines marrying Filipinas. Let us be clear that marrying a bargirl is different from marrying a non-sex worker in the Philippines. At the end of the day, we all have decisions to make when scouting for a Filipina if we wish to spend the rest of our lives with one. Sadly, some folks travel to the Philippines and do not know how to find a Filipina outside of the red-light district. With that being said, I have seen an American with some type of mental disorder who thought that he could turn a bargirl into a housewife, he even became a total control freak and banned her from talking to anyone of the opposite sex. Pretty crazy, right?