I've heard this a thousand times before in my lifetime and its frustrating. I share some info, some humor, and some a bit more emotional on why I can't let things go.
It has nothing to do with having feelings for them still, it has to do with the hurt of feeling used and taken advantage of.
Being Played is one the worst expressions in life, no one wants to feel it and shame on you if you do it.
Have I done it? I try not to, this episode talks about where I am at in 'finding or allowing love in with a man' if its not in the cards for me is this something to be depressed about or motivated by? Love isn't in the air with a man but it is with everything else in life so why focus on the one area that is lacking it?
I'm working on it and if you can connect to this, review, share your thoughts, and keep listening.