Arielle Ford has spent the past 30 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate offers a groundbreaking shift in perception showing couples how to have a deeper and more fulfilling relationship. Her latest book is Inkspirations: Love by Design: Coloring the Divine Path to Manifest Your Soulmate the world’s first transformational coloring book.
Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband and soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Her website www.soulmatesecret.com.
Today’s guest, Arielle Ford, answers the questions that have been troubling couples since the beginning of time: How do you find your soulmate? How do you effectively deal with your differences? Known as the “Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love”, Arielle shares her relational wisdom with listeners today and gives us insight into her own journey in finding and sustaining love. She’s author of the bestselling book The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of your life with the law of Attraction which provides a step-by-step guide for finding love. Tune-in as Arielle shares various insights which will help you turn your mate into a soulmate.
Arielle has spent the last 30 years living and promoting consciousness
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Finding true love
At the age of 43, Arielle realized that she had spent all her energy towards building her business and ignored her personal life
Arielle applied processes and rituals that had helped her with her love life
Within six months, Arielle met her future husband, Bryan—they have been married for 19 years now
Discovering her lack of partner skills
She quickly figured out that bossing around her alpha-masculine husband was not a good idea
Growing up in a middle-class, dysfunctional family did not help hone her relationship skills either
Committed herself to being a student of love
Our relationship skills or lack of them can be attributed to all the role models in our life
Having proper communication skills is critical for turning your mate into your soul mate
Bryan often complained that Arielle was “not listening” to him
Bryan is the youngest child and has a need to be heard
Arielle is the eldest child and she is a terrible listener
Arielle quickly realized that she had to learn to listen to Bryan
Arielle still has a hard time turning her body to Bryan, looking him in the eye and listening in a proper manner
Come up with creative solutions to iron out your differences
“You can either be right or you can be in a relationship”
Avoid correcting your partner
“It is absolutely normal to have differences in a relationship”
“Every couple has a minimum of 9 irreconcilable differences”
Creative solutions, not compromises, will help you deal with differences
In a compromise, one partner tends to let go, whereas a creative solution is a win-win situation
Arielle favorite line from the A Course in Miracles: “The only thing that can be lacking in a given situation is that which you were not given”
Thinking positively will surely help you find the love of your life
“The only thing that keeps us from getting all the love that we desire is our own limiting beliefs”
Attempt to consciously get rid of negative thoughts
Positive thoughts are much more powerful than negative ones. A few positive thoughts have the power to cancel out hundreds of negative ones
“Be the guardian to the doorway of your mind”
Having firm beliefs about your love life will affect your actions in a positive way
We draw to us the people, places and experiences that match our state of being
Your actions are nothing but a reflection of your beliefs
Having a firm belief that you are connected with your soulmate will prevent you from
