Death is painful and until you have walked in the shoes of someone who has lost a loved one, it is often hard to understand their grief. I recently lost my grandma and somedays the pain gets a lot, somedays it doesn't feel like it has sunk in that she is gone, however I am learning to savor the memories and lean into Abba when the pain hits me and that's what Abba is asking you to do today, lean into Him for comfort and succor, you don't have to be strong.