Guests:✨ Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC-SLP – Licensed Speech-Language Pathologist, Author, and Parent Coach✨ Dali Rivera – Founder of the Diversity & Anti-Bullying Academy and Bullying Prevention Educator
What really causes kids to bully? How can we help children regulate their emotions, build confidence, and stand up for others — especially when the world is telling them to “stay out of it”?
In this heartfelt and unapologetically real conversation, Elizabeth Sautter and Dali Rivera tackle the emotional, social, and cultural roots of bullying. From decoding the “snitches get stitches” mentality to empowering families with the right vocabulary to talk about bullying, this episode is a call to action for every parent, teacher, and caregiver.
Whether your child is neurodivergent, struggling with confidence, or not sure how to be an upstander — this episode gives you tools, language, and perspective to do better for the next generation.
Why low self-esteem and lack of emotional tools are breeding grounds for bullying
The difference between a conflict and bullying (and why language matters)
How “snitches get stitches” culture silences victims and empowers bullies
What to do when your child is the one doing the bullying — with zero shame
Tips for helping victims of bullying feel safe, seen, and strong
How to raise emotionally regulated kids who don’t lash out
Why every community needs more upstanders, not passive bystanders
Tools for talking about bullying with neurodivergent children
Why social-emotional learning is not optional — it’s survival
Normalize conversations about emotions, boundaries, and advocacy
Teach your child the vocabulary they need to express harm or concern
Role-play how to speak up or get help when someone is being bullied
Check in with your school about SEL programming and bullying policies
Reflect on your own beliefs around “toughness” and emotional expression
Follow up if your child is accused of bullying — don’t deflect, don’t panic
🔗 Learn more about Elizabeth Sautter atinfo@elizabethsautter.com
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