As I experience relationships I learn more and more that love is a gift we have no idea how to handle. Yes, we want it but I try too hard to desperately cling on to anything that looks like love just because we are scared to lose it. This is the biggest mistake when dealing with love because love is like water. You have to hold it with firm but loose hands, balanced hands. If your hands are too loose the water slips through your fingers, if they are too tight the same things happens.
