Hello, Hello, Hello, Sorry for the break, ya girl has been going through some ish!!!!!! My issue along with a post I saw and what happened today has me ready to speak. The whole world is changing hopefully for the better, or at least for those of us who have been doing the inner work. It’s time for us to stop accepting old patterns of thought that hurt us as a whole. Today I’m talking about women, specifically black women. I am so tired of the stereotype of the angry black woman. ALL women get it, when you know what you want and go for it, you can get labeled as a bitch or aggressive, rather than assertive or knowing your vision.
I saw a post online of some young men saying their preference in dating, now if you have listened before or if you know me then you know I am down with the swirl. That is not the issue, it’s the reason these men gave for not wanting to date black women. Take listen from their own mouths. Now to keep it real, I have thought a similar thought about black men, they don’t know how to date, or they don’t know how to treat women so I use to date other nationalities. I realized that was ignorant and I stopped years ago just dating white guys. The issue I have is WE ALL have been brainwashed. We now know there is systematic racism but are black and brown people aware of the self-hate that has been fed to us so sneaky and sly, that you don’t always catch it. I’ve been watching Martin lately, and even that classic show is playing into the stereotypes, not intentionally. Light skinned girl Gina has the man, Pam the dark-skinned honey has an attitude and no manz.
We have work to do!!! This is a law (the law of species) that should no longer be up for debate. Who is arguing with gravity? I sometimes think I can fly but I still know there is gravity. We are humans all here together, well some of y’all may be robots, or AI, or clones lol. BUT we must and by we, I mean my white sisters and my brotha’s need to come together. White women because you already know how men can be, hello DaVinci Code. Brothers because you all may be a victim of having assumptions and those assumptions make you act a certain way, and then women react a certain way. I AM ALL IN FOR THE SWIRL!!! I love seeing international couples, I just think it is high time this issue is also addressed.
We ALL have been brainwashed and it’s time to stop. There will never be full peace on earth, not looking for that. BUT it’s clear that some people have a misunderstanding and that became a disease that filled the earth. We all want the same thing: Place to live, food to eat, clothes to wear and find out what life is stored in us regardless of age, nationality, or $$. There are little things “They” have done that program you without you knowing it. It’s time to implement solutions= Different commercials, shows, networks, opportunities. White women taking up the fight. And Black men date who you want, but know if you have been sipping the kool-aide and stop! That goes for us too. It’s time to LOVE Ourselves. All of us, NOT just the outer trimmings.
