In this week’s episode of The Raw Vibe, I sit down with relationship coach and author Monica Tanner, whose book Bad Marriage Advice challenges the myths and misunderstandings that often lead couples astray. Together, we dive deep into what makes healthy relationships thrive — from honest communication and sexual health to intimacy and emotional alignment.
Monica shares powerful insights on how couples can create a safe space to express desires, set boundaries, and address small issues before they grow into bigger problems. Whether you’re newly married or decades into your relationship, this conversation will give you practical tools to strengthen your connection, negotiate differences with respect, and rediscover fulfillment in and out of the bedroom.
Key Takeaways:
Communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship.
Sex talks aren’t taboo — they’re necessary and ongoing.
Boundaries build trust, not barriers.
Values alignment keeps couples connected.
Small improvements today prevent major conflicts tomorrow.
Tune in now and learn how to turn good intentions into lasting intimacy.
Visit The Raw Vibe for more empowering conversations, connect with Monica Tanner at monicatanner.com, and read a sample of Bad Marriage Advice here. https://amzn.to/3OzWr5C
00:00 The Importance of Communication in Relationships
02:43 Navigating Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
05:38 Breaking the Ice: Discussing Difficult Topics
08:56 Setting Boundaries in New Relationships
11:50 Understanding Values in Relationships
14:55 Bad Marriage Advice: What to Avoid
17:51 Creating a Healthy Relationship Dynamic
20:47 The Role of Religion and Values in Relationships
23:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
