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Alexandru Capalau

I'm a mindset and behaviour coach/specialist and when I was 23 I succeeded to bring a simple idea on a paper into reality, be successfully funded on Kickstarter and featured on BBC. That idea is now called The Voltura Game, a self-development board game that was played by more than 800 people, from all areas of life, being praised by influencers, serial entrepreneurs, Forbes 30 under 30 and even psychologists.



But my story was not like this from the beginning…



I used to be in a lot of groups and social circles and I saw that with every group I interacted I felt left out. I had a belief that I don’t belong, so I tried to fit in groups, not knowing that minute by minute I’m losing myself and I’m not authentic anymore with who I am.

And all the conversations were very superficial, we were talking but, we really don’t know each other, ending by saying to myself “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I fit in?”. As a result, I was disconnected from them and more importantly, I became disconnected from myself.

So, I changed my thoughts and my behaviour according to what THEY said and started doing what they did, not knowing that this would have a huge impact on my self-esteem and wellbeing in general. I tried to be perfect in their eyes. In one word, I was wearing a mask. By creating and playing Voltura, I finally removed all these barriers and I started to become authentic to myself and to take care of my own needs, by listening to what I want.

I have unmasked myself and it was like a huge breath of fresh air. In the end, I discovered what perfectionism is and it wasn’t what I really thought IT IS. So, what is happening in the game is that the more you play, the more you unravel your inner perfection and the more you are able to better understand yourself and others.

About Sam Dossa

To transform into a peak performer, you need a plan to enhance your physical, mental and emotional abilities.

Are you looking to create a successful life?

Would you like to know how you can strengthen yourself - Physically – Mentally – Emotionally!

Would you like to discover a way to become fully capable of achieving greater results?

My niche is to develop and enhance individuals’ & corporate sectors’ Emotional Intelligence so they can operate efficiently and achieve amazing results.

We are aware that the workplace can be very stressful when we have to deal with challenging leadership, giving and receiving feedback, dealing with change, achieving deadlines, and dealing with setback and failures. We can equip ourselves with skills to manage our emotions in such situations to be able to respond confidently. We do not need to be controlled by the circumstances.

Learning and application of principles of Emotional Intelligence can enhance your self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy and social skills.

Check out my Emotional Intelligence Course on Udemy

So, how can I help you in your Journey?

Book a 30 minutes discovery call via the link: Book an appointment