Titus 3:4-5 GNB says
“But when the kindness and love of God our Saviour was revealed, he saved us. It was not because of any good deeds that we ourselves had done, but because of his own mercy that he saved us, through the Holy Spirit, who gives us new birth and new life by washing us.”
But how can we unconditionally love people who consistently hurt us and do the wrong things?