Topic - Outings with Kids. There was 5-year old Andrew, sitting with mom and dad at the restaurant. He was climbing out of his seat, throwing food, screaming, and crying.
Parents kept talking to him…talking! They were embarrassed, but that’s it.
What do you with a child like Andrew? While his behavior might not be related to any serious problems, if it happens consistently, look into it.
Otherwise, these situations are caused by parents’ failure to plan. Yes, it’s your fault if you take a child to a restaurant, the movies or Disneyland without an escape plan.
Take two cars. When Andrew loses it, escort him to the car until he regains his composure and you tell him the rules. Repeat as necessary and don’t be surprised if he falls asleep in the car.
The timing of an outing can make or break the event. Make sure you are prepared with snacks, toys, or a stroller so that you and everyone there can have a good time. This is especially important if the event is a family celebration at a restaurant.
