so my jaw clicks sometimes when I talk. and I get so in my head about it. and I talk about it a lot during this episode but guess what!? you can barely hear it, if at all. So. this is a great example of the way that we can become obsessed with something that seems so obvious and annoying and noticeable to us, that other people can barely even pick up on. I can believe that I am so obviously an annoying jaw clicking talker that no one would ever want to listen to, but you would never think that. you’d say, what clicking? or you’d say, I can barely hear that now that you point it out. 😆 it’s the veil where I get so distracted by something I think might disqualify me from doing what I love, it becomes all I can think about. just like the emperor wearing no clothes who has convinced himself that he should be the type of person that is cool enough to see the invisible fabric of coolness but in reality he’s lost in a sea of wanting to be accepted and to be popular. thanks for listening
