Description

What will your future family look like?  In 10-15 years who will you all become?  And what can you do now to help your family become the family you desire?



In today's episode we take you through the process of creating your own family values, putting together a plan to work on those values, and finally how you actually implement them in your family.

Key Takeaways

We can CHOOSE what we want our family to look like-- okay maybe not the number of kids or what everyone wears or does.  BUT we can choose the culture that we foster in our family.

Think about the family you want to have in ~15 years.  How do get there?

Step 1: Start with the end in mind - Create a vision for your family

1. Brainstorm a list of adjectives you want to describe your family
2. Choose 5-6 words that are particularly meaningful for your family (make sure to include your family in this process)
3. WRITE it down

Listen to the Thriving in Motherhood episode all about establishing and living their family values.

Step 2: Create a plan

• This isn't something we can do for you.  This will be very individual.
• Think about the adjectives you just chose for your family.  What kinds of things can you do that will help you get there?
• Be intentional about the things you choose to do with your family

Step 3: Follow through

• Repeat, repeat, repeat your values and/or vision.  Make sure everyone in your family knows what you care about.  The more you say it, the more you will believe it
• Live it!  Set the example.  Praise when you see your children exemplifying those values.
• Re-evaluate when necessary