The next 6 episodes we will talk about how to CREATE THE LIFE YOU LOVE and Go From How to WoW!
Creating the life you love is perfectly within your reach! By truly embracing yourself, experiencing life for the first time again you’re able to embrace life with excitement, gratitude and positivity!
Step 1: Clear Out All Areas of Doubt
What are your favorite things about your life? What do you need to do in order to make your days, weeks and years complete? Think for a moment about what you're grateful for. It’s possible to feel that gratitude in each moment of the day. Imagine how it might feel to dive into life and pursue your true potential!
What do your days look like? What kind of people are in your life? What is your profession? What hobbies do you make time for?
Shedding Your Doubt
Carrying around negativity and doubt adds a ton of weight to your shoulders. You’re allowed to let go and move on from any doubt you have in your life. It’s okay to be unsure and confused. That’s a natural part of life.
Self-Doubt
Self-doubt is the first thing you want to let go of. If you’re constantly doubting what you say or do, the time has come to make a change. If you lack confidence in any environment, it’s time to transform your thinking.
Your spirit and energy can be totally drained by self-doubt. Sometimes it’s difficult to realize that you’re doubting yourself, especially if self-doubt has become such a natural part of your inner dialogue that you don’t notice it.
Critical Self-Talk
Self-doubt can be caused by the words you say to yourself on a daily basis. The way you see yourself and the world around you is affected by your self-talk.
Begin to change your thinking, it will be difficult to see the many possibilities in your life. If you continue to berate yourself for the way you walk, talk, or breathe, you will only dig yourself further into a hole of negativity.
Doubting Relationships
Think about your community as a whole. Take an aerial view of it and see all of the connections in your life. Think about your barista at the coffee shop, your colleagues at work, your best friends, and any significant other you either have or will have in your life. Do you need more authentic connections in your life?
Let’s start by identifying how you doubt yourself, and how that doubt manifests in your life.
Questions to consider:
● How often do you sacrifice your needs for what others want?
● Do you frequently apologize for things you don’t need to apologize for?
● Have you ever been called or referred to yourself as a people pleaser?
● Do you stop yourself from speaking up for yourself?
Considering these questions can help reveal any self-doubt you hold that you might not realize that you have in your life.
In Love & Light,
Dane Boyle | Life Strategist
