[recorded pre-Christmas 2021] this time Alesha and I primarily talk about the small town dynamics of where we grew up. As time goes on we move toward how it molded us all to be who we are today and it goes from laughing and joking to a more serious conversation about religion, marriage, and love language. In part 2 we will talk about how our small town upbringing was a disservice as we grew into our respective professions and the things we needed to unlearn about the world and in ourselves in order to be at peace with who we are and what we want our adult work to show.