It haunts you, creeps up when you least expect it, has you acting in ways that leave you feeling depleted and inadequate. I'm not talking about the guilt that comes from acting out of integrity, I'm talking about mom guilt, survivors guilt, vulnerability hang overs, downplaying success. The chronic feeling that nothing you do is ever enough and you are somehow a bad person. Time to look under the hood at the feeling that does not have a return on investment.