今期阿里娃嘅邮箱收到一位JJ女士嘅Case喔。
Hello阿里娃、森美你哋好啊。我同我老公同年,佢大我几个月喈,我哋22岁就结婚、生咗个女,宜家个女四岁都未到。最近我发现我老公好唔正常,以前我哋係无秘密嘎,最近见佢成日好专注咁睇住手机,一见到我就即刻锁屏,神情好慌张咁。而我其实都背住我老公偷食咗有超过半年啦,喺哩半年里面,我老公都有怀疑过我,有一段时间每日都要查我手机,我每日落班之前就会删晒所有蛛丝马迹,佢係睇唔出有乜嘢异样嘅,但有一次我放低手机喺厅,去厕所出嚟,发现我老公摞起我手机睇,原来係我男朋友发微信话我知挂住我。当时我假装镇定,复我男友,问佢係米发错咗嘢过嚟,佢好醒目即刻复我“唔好意思啊发错”。嗰次之后,老公就一直怀疑我啦,好想揾机会发我脾气,有时仲会揾个女出气,就算点样我都唔承认。直到个女肺炎入院,我要跟住去陪护,我哋就分开几日(因为疫情关系,入院唔可以探病)。个女出院之后,我渐渐开始觉得老公对我无咗咁紧张啦,唔再查我嘅手机,以前钟意成日痴住我,微信佢係秒回嘎,宜家多咗独处嘅时间,同埋经常好迟先复我。我唔敢查得佢太紧,只係偶尔提下佢,偷食记得抹嘴,因为我都怕佢会睇得我太紧坏咗我同男友嘅好事。种种迹象表明,我哋两公婆真係各自各精彩啦,但我哋应该係唔会离婚嘎,因为我男友都係有夫之妇,我哋迷恋对方嘅身体;而我老公都揾唔到同我离婚嘅理由……未来係点真係唔敢谂啊,唔知道我哋哩种状况会维持几耐呢?我从内心挣扎到宜家觉得开心,我係米好奇葩啊?