This evening's talk is inspired by conversations with girlfriends in the dating world: a common situation is after a brief period of dating, a text will come in with a request to " do anal and swallow"
I want to address two parts of it, why sending a text with a request for that early in a relationship without any discussion is a RED FLAG
--porn mindset and how Steve and I disagree on this!
--how to approach sexual discussion with specific requests for acts instead
--how to ask for things which are out of someone's comfort zone. How to approach things which are out of YOUR comfort zone that your partner wants.
--How a healthy dynamic inspires willingness vs. compliance, and avoiding pressuring your partner or triggering issues from past sexual trauma
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