Episode 356 - Breaks down the topic of people-pleasing. People-pleasing is the act of prioritizing others' needs and desires over one's own, often to avoid conflict or gain approval, which can lead to personal dissatisfaction and emotional exhaustion. It involves changing one's behavior to make others happy, sometimes at the expense of one's own well-being. The people-pleaser needs to please others for reasons that may include fear of rejection, insecurities, and the need to be well-liked.
The tendency to please is related to Dependent Personality Disorder. While the people-pleaser may not need others to do things for them, they do need others, regardless. The Babylonian matrix loosh farm system carefully crafted a system of destruction that relies on traumatizing humanity. The vast majority of people have broken souls and are lost in life. Therefore, it makes it much easier for these lost souls to continue in constant karmic cycles of people pleasing and trauma-bonding relationships. The vast majority of people rely on unsatisfactory codependent relationships that are used to fill an empty void that remains constant.
People pleasing has become the standard, along with passivity and lack of authenticity. The vast majority of individuals in society rely on people-pleasing tactics daily and would be unable to function without constant validation and a sense of control. Oftentimes, people pleasing results from deep-rooted trauma and abandonment wounds, and those who partake in it only do so out of sheer survival. Whereas many recognize the power of people-pleasing as a form of narcissistic control that allows an individual to garner attention, favor, insights, and material possessions.
In order to stop people pleasing, one must know thyself, begin their healing journey, and remain in alignment with Cosmic and Universal laws. People pleasing is dishonest because we aren’t being our authentic selves, and we hide our intentions when interacting with others. When we people-please, we do a disservice not only to others but also to ourselves. We die for lack of knowledge.
Link:
People Pleaser: Definition, Signs, & How to Stop
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3 Reasons Being a People Pleaser is SelfishSolar Plexus stores your emotional programming & memories. #chosenones #solarahspeaksChosen STOP GIVING
