Reasons why we decided (NOT) continue IVF... establishing a closer relationship with God was more important. Our failures test our faith. As women we are told by society that you are not complete unless you have children. We must understand that God made us all different and test our trials for a reason. If I can go through life being questioned about why I don't have children and stand and say the creator says it's not my time then I will continue to follow God every step of the way. I need God every day. Even on my best days!