What if the life you want isn’t blocked by your circumstances—but by the story you keep telling yourself?
In this powerful episode of The Small Victories Podcast, Pauline Victoria sits down with Kyle Smith, Clarity Consultant and founder of ClarityConsultant.ca, to explore how we can stop waiting for life to change and start choosing the life we want to live.
Kyle shares his own raw and transformational journey from feeling stuck and chaotic to stepping into personal leadership and purpose. Through practical tools like intentional breathwork, story reframing, and the concept of “soft talk” vs. “solid talk,” Kyle empowers listeners to shift from indecision to action.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, directionless, or unsure of your next step, this conversation will help you reconnect with your inner authority and create the clarity you’ve been craving.
Clarity is leadership of the self: It’s not just about knowing what you want—it’s about taking responsibility for choosing your path.
Soft talk weakens our self-trust: Learn how ambiguous language creates uncertainty, and how shifting to “solid talk” builds decisiveness and confidence.
Awareness is the first step toward change: You can’t choose a new direction unless you first acknowledge where you are.
Purpose transforms emotional chaos into focused action: Especially for men, channeling energy into meaningful pursuits can lead to healing and growth.
Your words create your world: “Abracadabra” literally means “with my words, I create.” The stories you speak shape your identity, your direction, and your destiny.
What story have you been telling yourself that might be holding you back from the life you truly want?
Where in your life are you using “soft talk,” and how could shifting to “solid talk” help you make more confident decisions?
🎧 Listen now and begin your journey toward clarity, leadership, and empowered living. 📲 Learn more about Kyle and his 7-Day Soft Talk Challenge at ClarityConsultant.ca
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