In this episode Hernan goes at it alone. Join the journey as he talks about his #ShyGuy "Make them choose" theory in Poker and some thoughts to stay away from when dealing with attention. Take action and join the conversation on Facebook @SiasFirst or on Twitter @BusinessBrosPod and if you want more info visit our website www.SiasFirst.com. Music by www.bensound.com
Shy Guy
On vacation to Vegas
Playing Poker with Shy Guy
Make the other person choose
People are bad at making choices
Afraid of being wrong
You are not honest with yourself
You don’t know who you are
You don’t know what you want
You are afraid others will figure that out about you.
You complain that people are haters
People talk to much shit
Why are you listening
You are trying to impress other people
Keeping up with the jones
Wasting money on material things
Why? To impress those people who you said you didn’t like them
Here is the secret:
They don’t know who they are either
They don’t know what they want either
They are afraid that you are going to figure them out
Their defense? Talk shit and guess what, you do it too!
You need to gain perspective
You live a life of privilege
You are truly blessed to be alive
You already won the lottery
What are you doing with the limited time you have on this planet?
Your alive for a short period of time and dead a very long time
No one will remember you in time
What are you afraid of? Your legacy?
You have no legacy because you have not done anything yet
You keep stopping yourself from doing anything
People ask me all the time…
I want to make a lot of money, what should I do?
The number one thing you need to do before you can be of service to other people is to dedicate yourself to action.
If you are thinking about starting a business or investing in something you are missing the point
You will miss 100% of the shot you don’t take.
Future you is going to look back at you and what will you say to yourself?
I should of, I could of, If I,
OR WORSE: He stopped me, she stopped me, my kids, my wife, my work, EXCUSES
You always find a way to…
Take some time off
Clock out at 5PM
Binge watch netflix
Be humble
Understand that you are in control of you
You have the ability to make something
Everything is your fault
NO ONE ELSES
Be thankful to those who engage with you good or bad
Thank them for their opinions
Show gratitude
Ask them what it is that you can do to help them
Ignore the haters
Attention is a true gift good or bad
Even those who have negative things to say, are listening
Stop focusing your attention on the opinions of others
BE YOURSELF
Figure out what that is
Decide on what you want to do
AND DO IT!
It doesn’t have to be your passion
It does have to be something you are willing to get up and do, when you don’t want to do it and do it, at a high level.