WhenJesus left the Pharisee's house, great crowds followed Him, but He was notimpressed by the size of the crowd or their enthusiasm. In this passage, Jesusspeaks to a large crowd following Him, saying, “If anyone comes to Me anddoes not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters,yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. And whoever does not bearhis cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.” He uses parables aboutbuilding a tower and a king preparing for war to emphasize counting the cost offollowing Him, concluding that disciples must forsake all and be like salt thatretains its flavor.
Imaginea massive crowd buzzing with excitement, trailing Jesus as He walks away from aPharisee’s house. They’re drawn to His miracles, His teachings, maybe evenhopes of a political revolution. But Jesus stops, turns, and delivers asobering message: discipleship isn’t a casual fan club. It’s a costly, all-incommitment.
First,Jesus demands supreme love. He says we must “hate” our family and even our ownlives. This isn’t about despising people but loving Jesus so fiercely thatevery other affection pales in comparison. Think of a parent who sacrificespersonal dreams to follow God’s call or a believer who risks family ties tostand for Christ. Our love for Jesus must eclipse all else, making us willingto surrender even what’s dearest. I love how Oswald Chambers puts it: “The onlyright we have is the right to give up the right to ourselves”.
Second,Jesus calls us to bear our cross. This isn’t just enduring life’sannoyances—it’s a daily choice to embrace shame, suffering, and God’s will,just as Jesus did on His way to Calvary. It’s saying no to selfish ambitionsand yes to serving Christ, even when it’s unpopular or painful. Picture earlyChristians facing persecution or missionaries leaving comfort for danger.That’s the cross we’re called to carry.
Then,Jesus uses two parables to drive home the need to count the cost. A buildermust ensure he has enough to finish a tower, or he’ll face mockery for ahalf-built ruin. A king must assess if his army can defeat a stronger foe, orhe’ll need to seek peace. These stories challenge us to consider: Are we readyto follow Jesus fully, knowing it may cost our reputation, possessions, or evenour lives? Half-hearted commitment won’t do. Jesus wants disciples who’llfinish the race, not quit when the glamour fades.
Finally,Jesus compares disciples to salt. Salt preserves, purifies, and adds flavor,making people thirsty for God. But if salt loses its savor, it’s useless, fitonly to be thrown out. A disciple who compromises their faith becomesineffective, unable to impact the world for Christ. We’re called to stayvibrant, devoted, and true, reflecting Jesus in our character and actions.
Discipleshipis serious business. Jesus doesn’t coerce us, He invites us to choose Himdeliberately, knowing the cost. He’s looking for quality, not quantity, fordisciples who’ll be stones in His church, soldiers in His battle, and salt inHis world. As He spoke these words, Jesus was heading toward His own cross. Heasks nothing of us that He hasn’t already given.
Challenge
This week, reflect on what discipleship costs you personally. Ask yourself: Isthere something—family, comfort, ambition—I’m holding back from Jesus? Take onepractical step to deepen your commitment. Maybe it’s prioritizing prayer overdistractions, serving someone despite inconvenience, or boldly sharing yourfaith. Count the cost, then choose to follow Jesus fully. Be salt that flavorsthe world around you.
Prayer
Father, thank You for Jesus’ call to true discipleship. Give us courage to loveYou above all, bear our cross, and count the cost. Help us be salt thatglorifies You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
