A boundary is defined as “a line that marks the limits of an area or a dividing line.” We decided we like the term “crossing point” better than dividing line because boundaries don’t have to be divisive.
Boundary lines don’t have to be battle lines.
First we have to remember a few things about boundaries…
1. A boundary is what I will do if a request is not honored; it is NOT what I will do to try and control another person.
2. A boundary is for ME to have safety, sanity, and protection. It’s for ME to be able to be my best self, NOT to punish someone else.
3. Boundaries feel like love for everyone involved when they’re done in emotional maturity.
Boundary setting can feel challenging and uncomfortable which may make it hard to hold your boundaries at first. Remember to have LOTS of grace and compassion for yourself and everyone involved as you work to grow in confidence of holding your boundary with love. As you do this, you’ll be able to stay in love and peace.
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