For most of our lives, we’ve heard that if you say “I’m sorry you feel that way” it’s not a true apology. But let’s explore that a little…
Delivery matters. Intention matters. How the other person receives it…completely out of your control. Showing up in love and compassion when apologizing will create peace and love FOR YOU. The person you’re apologizing to also gets to decide how they will receive it and respond, or not.
At a deeper level, really trying to drop your own understanding as you step into someone else shoes and truly seeking to understand what the other person is experiencing that is painful and hard for them will help you know how to respond and show up in love, which may mean you don’t bring “I’m sorry you feel that way” to the conversation. It requires a great deal of humility and loads of compassion, but can be very healing and connecting. When you listen to the episode, all of this will make a lot more sense.
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