Oftentimes, we seek for acceptance and validation from others. This is usually based on the childhood pain/trauma we have experienced.
We may have been told we would never be good enough or never amount to anything. We may have been rejected, abused, molested, abandoned or made to feel unloved. These things drive us to create a narrative that does not define who we are.
We accept spoken words from others that create illusions, birth fantasies and limited beliefs. We awaken fear and ego in the process and begin to shift away from our true essence.
Reality is that no one can give you the acceptance and validation you seek outside of yourself.
You must heal from all the acquired pain/trauma as a child which now manifest in the adult life.
You must find yourself, own the truth and accept yourself for who God created you to be and become. You must learn to love yourself in order to become whole.
Join the Purposeful Relationship Circle to learn how to begin the journey to finding and loving yourself so you can gain a conscious awareness and attain wholeness.
Yours truly,
Kemi Sogunle
Certified Life Coach & Relationship Expert
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