In this hilarious conversation Siya a regular guest on the show together with Sabelo , discuss whether or not it is okay for women to approach a man first . I believe there is nothing wrong with girls 'shooting their shot ' but both Siya and Sabelo had their reservations about my dating theories and beliefs. This conversation is one of those highly entertaining conversations that are just fun to listen to. We also talk about the importance of conversations before any relationship starts .