Here's some high points you DON'T want to miss or forget: Trust the Holy Spirit! The way you get to know that voice is to spend time with God and His Word! Don't mistake God's will for your OWN feelings! GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, rather than each other's BODY (LOL). God will bring you the BEST plan in the BEST season! "God is trying to spice up yo life!" Don't be blinded by "being in LOVE with LOVE." If you are looking for someone to fill the void other than GOD...it will never work! WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST! If your foundation is strong in the LORD, then you are set up for success. You can't fix someone else, but you can fix yourself! CHALLENGE! If you are single or dating, MAKE A LIST! These are character traits that are NON-NEGOTIABLE! These things cannot be justified. Our #1 is a man running after GOD! Making a list is NOT being judgmental. It is a wise way to keep your focus on what matters. You will not find someone who agrees with you on everything, but there are important things that a couple needs to agree on to truly thrive and last.