Our interview is taking place during a very tumultuous time in history. I’ve noticed many of my small business clients feel exhausted or overwhelmed right now. Even the best compartmentalizers are having a difficult time, and they’re having to dig extra deep to be leaders when there’s so much to process just as human beings. What are you observing as a coach about this moment in time?
One of the things that helps me to summon the energy I need to overcome a difficult time is to remember a challenge that I’ve overcome. I ask myself to remember what I had to do, what I accomplished as a result, and especially to recall it as a moment -- that as difficult as it was it eventually passed. What’s something that you had to face that serves as that guiding reminder when you have a new challenge or difficulty?
One of the things that I am just beginning to learn from you is the process for Nonviolent Communication. This is a system that helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings. Describe for us the basic tenets of NVC and an example of how to apply them.
As a fellow coach I think one thing we have in common is we’re willing to share ourselves to help others realize that they are not alone in their struggles. Leaders sometimes confuse being a role model with perfectionism. I know we both try to show that imperfection is not only natural but often more interesting. So my question for you is: What are you not very good at, and what have you learned from that?
One of the things that can be difficult as a coach is getting people to understand the benefit of something that’s intangible. We’re not selling something that people can look at or hold. What’s something people seem to misunderstand about your work?
Congratulations on being a Finalist for this year’s Spark Award! The Better Business Bureau is hosting a virtual ceremony this year, and I’m really excited that you’re being recognized for your good work. The application for the award is fairly extensive. Share with us something that really stood out for you as you developed your answers. What did you have to consciously realize about your work that maybe you had not celebrated before?
You can learn more about Tabitha Danloe and the Divine Sophia by visiting her website at thedivinesophia.com.
SBBV host Stephanie Rising is an award-winning small business coach on a mission to get business owners off their “hamster wheel”and empower them as authentic and influential leaders. Her online Dynamic Marketing course provides step-by-step videos and exercises to help you connect with your Ideal Client and discover your true sales personality. Find out if you’re a Panther, Politician, Protector, or Professor by going to https://courses.therisingeffect.com/all-courses/.
