“He said he agreed… but did he really?”
“How do I know if we’re truly aligned—or just coexisting?”
In this eye-opening episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we unpack one of the most common (and dangerous) relationship assumptions: thinking you’re on the same page just because he nodded.
Whether you’re dating, married, or decades into a relationship, you may be missing the signs that real cognitive intimacy is missing. Learn how to protect your psychological security—not by lecturing, pleading, or guessing—but by discovering the truth with one powerful tool: the Weather Check.
You'll learn:
Why a simple nod doesn’t always mean agreement—and what it could actually mean
The difference between hoping for alignment and confirming it
The dangers of trying to “mother” someone into having ambition
How to ask second-date-style questions that reveal true goals, values, and plans
How to find out what kind of man you’re actually in the raft with—before it sinks
The life-saving mindset shift that helps you stop assuming and start discerning
This episode is raw, real, and built to help you stop guessing and start growing in truth—whether you’re years into a relationship or just realizing you're still not aligned.
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