Maurice Harker discusses the need to avoid absolutes as it relates to physical intimacy. He advises being aware of how you feel now may not be how you feel later. To learn more about this subject and others please click on the links below:
4http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)
https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)
https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)