“Why is she asking about something from five years ago?”
“Why does she want to talk about something I barely remember?”
“Why won’t she just drop it?”
If these questions echo in your mind during hard conversations with your wife, you’re not alone. This episode tackles the psychological and spiritual disconnect men often feel when their wives want to revisit confusing or distant emotional topics—and why engaging anyway may be the most loving thing you ever do.
Inside this episode:
Why her questions might not be about fear—or betrayal at all
How emotional intimacy works differently for her than it does for you
What it means to be “doing it right when it doesn’t make sense”
Why shutting down, avoiding, or saying “I don’t remember” causes more damage than you think
How to use DARs (Divine-Assisted Reflection) to uncover what you didn’t even realize was going on back then
How staying connected—even in discomfort—is an act of strength, not weakness
If you want to stop being defensive and start being dependable—especially when you're confused, embarrassed, or unsure—this episode is for you.
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