“Why does she keep asking questions about things I barely remember?”
“Why does she want to know every little detail from years ago?”
“Haven’t I already told her enough?”
If you’ve ever felt exhausted or confused by your wife’s need for details, this episode will change how you see her questions—and how you see emotional intimacy.
In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice and the group explore:
Why your wife’s need for information isn’t always about betrayal
How trauma, fear, and connection each drive different kinds of questions
Why being available for the conversation matters more than the answers themselves
The emotional parallel between a wife’s desire to “see inside your life” and a husband’s desire for physical closeness
Why details are not just facts—they are shared experiences
What to do when she’s overwhelmed one day and asking deep questions the next
This episode offers a powerful reframing: her questions aren’t about interrogation—they’re about intimacy. And when you handle them with patience and curiosity, it builds the trust you’ve both been starving for.
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