"Don't keep secrets. And that ties into what you were just saying... we don’t want the person we’re caring for to feel vulnerable, to be upset... so we try and make it better. We try and make it okay, and too often, we promise things we cannot be sure we can keep." ~ Deborah HalliseyTitle: A Relationship Contract for CaregiversOn this episode of Life Happens with Kim Hegwood, we're joined by special guest Deborah Hallisey, author and experienced caregiver, to discuss the idea of a “relationship contract” for caregivers. Deborah draws on her own journey caring for both her parents to offer practical advice and deep insights into how caregiving can reshape every relationship in our lives. Together, Kim and Deborah dive into the emotional complexities of caregiving—everything from the importance of honest conversations and setting boundaries, to dealing with guilt, resentment, and the unique challenges faced by dementia caregivers. Deborah also shares valuable tips on balancing self-care, building a support network, and why it’s crucial not to keep secrets during these challenging times. Whether you’re caring for a parent, spouse, or another loved one, this episode is packed with compassionate wisdom and actionable strategies to help you navigate your caregiving journey.How to Contact Deb609-915-4570Website: www.advocateformomanddad.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/advocateformomdad/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-hallisey/Twitter: https://twitter.com/advocatemomdadBio:Hi, my name is Deb Hallisey, I am a caregiver knowledge expert and advocate for older adults and their families.In 2015, everything changed when I became responsible for my disabled mother after my father’s death. I found myself asking “What do I do?” and “where do I start?” as her caregiver, as her financial adviser, and as her daughter? Figuring out the answers to those burning questions drove home the need we all have to be effective advocates for our aging parents.Through this life event, my website, Advocate for Mom and Dad, was born. Advocate for Mom and Dad offers practical advice for “what do I do?” and “where do I start?” You will learn from the experiences of others how they handled challenges related to topics such as legal, financial, insurance, and caregiving issues. Each story includes links to resources the family found helpful as an effective advocate for their parents. The mission of Advocate for Mom and Dad is to build a community that helps families determine their best answers to the questions of “what do I do?” and “where do I start?”______________________________________________________________Contact Kim Hegwood- Elder Law AttorneyWebsite: https://yourlegacylegalcare.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlegacylegalcare/Facebook –https://www.facebook.com/YourLegacyLegalCareLinkedIn-https://www.linkedin.com/company/yourlegacylegalcare/YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/@yourlegacylegalcareYour Legacy Legal Care 1150 Clear Lake City Blvd., Suite 100 Houston, TX 77062 (281) 218-0880
