How do couples solve problems, and "go for solution?" What is the best way to arrive at a solution to a problem that needs to be solved. The "highest spiritual thought game" is the best way to do this. The "highest thought" is the most loving, the most productive, and it feels the best. Both parties in the couple agree. But first both must drop their positions to arrive at one that is the solution. The real solution is often something "outside the box" that flows in a new direction. The ego is addicted to "conflict" and "problems." The real solution is conflict-free. It rises above any chronic patterns of unexpressed, (or too often expressed) conflict. Couples must agree for a "conflict-free" relationship in order to play this "highest thought game." "Dropping one's position" and the need to be right is essential. This makes a clean slate in which a totally new thought can come in. Already, the clean slate is not a state of conflict. JOY would be the result of a Solution that brings Joy to both parties. This is a goal that is important. Are you solutions Joyful? Communication is the atmosphere in which solutions are found. How much do we value communication? It is a necessary interaction that reveals solutions.
