In this Podcast, Sondra Ray & Markus Ray discuss the importance of Surrender: Dropping Your Position to resolve and end conflict in your relationship. "The need to be right" makes for all kinds of anger and conflict in relationships. Can you give up the need to be "right?" What if the mere fact that you are experiencing conflict is an indication that you are "wrong?" Would you be willing to make deep inner corrections on yourself, then?
Many couples fight because they cannot surrender this "need to be right." Dropping their position feels too much like a "defeat" than a way to resolve conflict. So they keep the "fight" going. "I am right, and obviously my partner is wrong." This standoff can go on for years. Ignoring it does not make the conflict go away either; it simply suppresses it to a deeper place of denial. DROPPING YOUR POSITION (your "need to be right") is the beginning of all real resolutions. The Higher Life Forces can give you answers that work, when both partners are willing to let go, surrender, and "drop their position."
