Why Comparing myself held me back for so long
I remember day 1 in the gym
I saw this dude jacked, massive arms, and a six pack
Here I am a scrawny kid, no muscle, man boobs and a belly who can barely bench the bar
Seeing how far they were it was tough for me at times
Every time I would hit a mark, I would look at how far they are and how much I had to do to get to where they were
BUT THIS IS EXACTLY HOW YOU SHOULDN’T GO ABOUT IT
I realized that these guys aren’t sitting and comparing all day
They are FUCKING WORKING
They are grinding
So I needed to start thinking like them, I needed to start being ruthless about my goals.
I needed action not comparison.
Once I got clear on that was when I started making MASSIVE strides
Cause my mental space was taken up by their journeys WHEN I NEEDED TO FOCUS ON MY OWN PATH…
So males struggling with man boobs
Stop comparing, you’ll never get to where these guys , or where you wanna be at looking at other dudes wondering how they got there
THE ONLY WAY you can make your goals happen for you
Is if you take MASSIVE ACTION for your own path an ignore what everyone else is doing
Ignore what your friend, family, people in your gym are doing.
WHAT ARE YOU DOING today to get better for yourself ?
