Why Being Single After 4 Years Doesn’t Bother Me
I used to be the type of guy that would rush into relationships
I would do it because I thought you were supposed to
You kinda of like someone and they kinda like you…. just date them right?
This would lead to me getting shiny object syndrome
And I would date girls for 8-10 months and I wouldn’t want to be with them anymore
Because I just rushed it and I never really took time to get to know the real them
And I Never took time to meet who I Really am
What I really wanted, I just did to fill the void of not having to be lonely
But when you try to fill a void…eventually that will be exposed if your with the wrong person
So now Im doing the deep work, figuring out who I am, what im looking for, what makes me happy
And the next time im in a relationship I won’t need that other person to fill a void because Im happy on my own
Im happy being with myself
So it would only be an add on to my life
I just see so many people get into relationships so fast and die even faster
Now I see it as I don’t want to waste month with the wrong person just cause society wants me to
I do things because I feel as though they will genuially bring value into my life
Because that spouse will be with you for hopefully the rest of your life
So if she or he doesn’t serve that purpose..then whats the point here?
This is not me giving relationship advice…
This is me saying MAKE SURE You are FULLY happy with who you are and not relying on filling that loneliness void for temporary happiness
All Love Kings
Coach Nasser
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