This episode was a painful realization of the true heartbreak of addiction and mental illness and it still continues to hit home for us. Relapse is a common part of the recovery process. Boredom and isolation could easily be listed as the number one reason for relapse by many individuals in early recovery. Any and all down time prior to recovery was usually used getting their substance, using their substance, and recovering from their substance. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), relapse statistics show that 40-60% of people relapse after completing treatment. Common triggers for relapse are fear, resentment, boredom, and unrealistic expectations. Stress, exhaustion, loneliness, depression, and anxiety. Revisiting people, places, or things that used to lead to drug use.
One thing I have come to understand and accept is that addiction is a lifelong diagnosis that needs constant management and vigilance. Setting healthy boundaries is one of THE BEST ways to love someone struggling with addiction. But most importantly, DON’T GIVE UP. Don’t be discouraged. Relapse doesn’t mean treatment was unsuccessful or that your loved one won’t be able to stay clean in the long run. It can even be helpful in teaching them what certain triggers are and how to avoid them in the future. It’s never too late for your loved one; don’t give up hope, they need to know they matter to you. If you are in the Portland Oregon or Vancouver, WA area please turn to www.bridgestochange.com who can help you support your loved one. If you are suffering from mental health, addiction and homelessness, they are here specifically to help YOU.
