Hiiiii guyssss! This week I talk about how I survived a toxic 15 person friendship group. I discuss some of the incidents that took place. And I share what I learnt and what I wish I had done differently. The whole situation was so exhausting both mentally and emotionally which is why I try to leave it in the past and move on. I am working on seeing people for who they are and trusting my intuition. I am still on my healing journey, but am immensely proud of my growth and healing so far. It took me along time to deal with this as it was an extremely untenable situation which caused alot of anxiety for me. But sharing this with you guys allows me to take ownership of the situation. And reminds me of how strong and resilient I am. Also I am aware that many other people have struggled with toxic friends or fake friends who never had their best interests at heart. It is a weird feeling to see that someone who you thought was your friend reveal who they truly are. It made me realise they betrayed me, our friendship and my trust. I use to question why the universe put me through this and maybe it was because I could share this and help someone out there feel less alone. After going through all this I realised that I would not like to be like any of them and that I was probably better off finding friends that I relate to. Even though not everyone in that group was toxic a lot of them were fake friends who allowed toxic people to mistreat people they called friends. I am grateful for the experience as it has made me the person I am today and led me to where I should be. I do not wish to interact with any of these people nor am I in contact with any of them. The reality is that many people come into your life and leave. There were certain people that I genuinely enjoyed being friends with and am grateful for the memories; even if things didn’t turn out how I had hoped. If I was still involved in that friend group my life would have been very different. I am glad that I am now able to see the situation as an experience which made me a better person. I’ve always heard that ‘birds of a feather flock together’ if anyone listening resonated with this episode or has been through or experienced something similar you have a good heart don’t let other people change that 🥹 To anyone who has dealt with fake friends or toxic friends I see you don’t worry you will get through this wishing you the best on your healing journey. 🤍 I appreciate everyone who listens it means so much to me thank you so much for being here and making my day 🩷
