Hi guysssss I’m officially ✨ the last to know ✨ I guess we were saved by the door bell this week ifykyk. This week’s storytime is about how it hurts to be an afterthought. So I just wanted to say that whether my aunt meant it like that or not there should have been effective communication to everyone about the dress code and colour scheme. After recording this episode and having a further conversation it has been made clear that outfits for cousins engagement party/ rokha have to be approved by aunt aka she has to be there when buying and see it. While she may have good intentions and wants to make everything perfect. In my personal opinion if everything is controlled it can seem fake and curated. One way I like to express myself is through what I wear and this includes outfits and styles. So obviously someone overseeing my purchase may hinder my individual style. While in this circumstance it would be okay to wear whatever aunt chooses because I do not wish to cause any drama and it’s only one day. It has really annoyed me that I was not told the colour scheme/ colour we would be wearing. And that I wasn’t told even after they had ALL purchased their outfits. Instead I had to call on an unrelated issue for them to inform me. This has really pissed me off because if they were able to tell everyone else then they could have easily texted me or my mum. Obviously it is not a major issue but has really annoyed me because this is not the first time they have done this and probably will not be the last. Anyway everyone who listens to this podcast is welcome to come as they are and bring your authentic self no outfit approval needed lol. ✨song of the week: espresso by sabrina carpenter ✨ eeekkk im also really excited for her new album short n’ sweet 🩵🤎 thank you everyone for listening and being here it means so much to me 🥹🤍 also I’m no longer upset just a bit annoyed 😂 I will put up with their nonsense cos I like my peace x also go checkout my tiktok: @simmm_k or use the link: https://www.tiktok.com/@simmm_k?_t=8j8sOLquotd&_r=1
