Should you schedule sex?
Well, is sex effortless and thoughtlessly a no brainer? Spontaneous and fulfilling?
If not, a gentle reminder such as scheduling sex is a way for me to keep tuning into MY needs, my desires & the brain drama that keeps blocking me from connecting with my husband.
It's too much work
Im tired
He doesn't deserve it
Things aren't working
It's fine as it is
Commitment to your pleasure GIVES you power back bc it shows you where you're shurking your honest, non-stressed, fuck-loving self.
