In this episode The Black Lotus Podcast collabs with the The Mure Mind Podcast, hosted by our friend and tiktok pheom, @Jordanrmure. In this episode we hopped on instagram live to talk about dating in the modern world, particularly in the Black American Community. This was a lengthy discussion and we also brought other guests onto the instagram live to discuss their experiences dating in the present-day environment. This episode was recorded on instagram live on May 15, 2021.
00:00 Mind of the Lotus
04:45 What kind of man are women desiring to be equal too
07:05 The grind a that is expected for men to be respected
08:50 How do Black Men oppress Black Women
12:35 The truth about Red pill
15:25 No one cares about men that aren't successful
17:10 What is wife material
18:00 Marriage thoughts
21:45 Black men aren't as strong as they were before
22:10 Low integrity individuals
24:45 Having balance between the Pills
33:10 Toxic masculinity
36:00 A man will change when you're the one
40:30 Do women know what they really want
42:45 Do girls complement their competition
45:21 The truth about life not being fair
47:00 First sponsor
47:40 Do women care about things other than money
49:45 A man in his horny stage will do anything
51:30: Men and women are wired differently
56:20 In a relationship someone has to submit
57:38 Can you handle being in charge
58:50 Don't get with a loser and expect not to lose
1:04:19 Can a woman's ambition be more than yours
1:05:05 The most important thing in a relationship is respect
1:10:00 The approach has changed
1:13:00 Stop playing games
1:16:30 Dr. Umar vs Kevin Samuels intro
1:20:00 Black relationships
1:23:00 Problem with DR. Umar
1:26:00 Do you watch the full Kevin Samuels
1:30:00 You can't get mad if the person you like doesn't like you
1:31:30 Red vs blue pill defined
1:37:00 Do certain women deserve high-value men
1:39:45 What do women need to do to earn a high-value man
1:43:00 The desire to be a power duo
1:46:10 Cheating and lying
1:50:30 The Friendzone
1:53:20 Why do people lie
1:56:09 Women thinking they deserve something they don't (woman's perspective)
1:59:00 Bill Gates situation
2:01:00 Women that have babies with men who aren't at the right level
2:06:00 The purpose of destroying black families
2:10:30 Thoughts on hitting men
2:15:00 The effects mothers have on their sons
2:22:45 Therapy
2:24:40 Psychology of Black people
2:32:40 Closing
